Parenting Mediation
Parenting mediation helps separated or separating parents agree on practical, child‑focused arrangements for their children in Canberra. It is a type of family dispute resolution usually required before you can apply to the Court for parenting orders.
Many parents come specifically for a parenting plan mediation, where the goal is to create or update a written parenting plan that fits their children’s routines and needs.
Parenting Plans
A parenting plan is a written agreement between parents that sets out practical arrangements for children after separation. A parenting plan must be signed, dated, and made free from coercion to be valid. While not legally enforceable, they provide a clear record of intentions and can be used as the basis for court orders. You can access our Complete guide to Parenting Plans here.
In a parenting plan mediation, we guide calm, child‑focused conversations so you can reach practical agreements and turn them into a workable parenting plan. Parenting plans are flexible and can be updated whenever both parents agree; many parents adjust them as children grow or circumstances change.
Common Questions About Parenting Mediation
How do I book a parenting plan mediation session in Canberra?
To book a parenting plan mediation, first schedule a Mediation Consultation (up to 90 minutes per party) so we can understand your situation and assess suitability. After that, we book your parenting mediation date together. You can arrange both using the booking buttons on this page or by calling 02 6243 4891.
What is a parenting mediation and how does it work?
Parenting mediation is a confidential process where separated parents work with an independent mediator to agree on arrangements for their children. After individual Mediation Consultations, we hold a joint session (in‑person or online) to work through an agenda and draft a parenting plan.
What is the difference between a parenting mediation and a parenting plan?
Parenting mediation is the process of discussing parenting issues and seeking to reach an agreement. A parenting plan is the written document that records those agreements and covers things like living arrangements, holidays and communication. You can read more in our Parenting Plan guide.
Are parenting plans legally binding?
Parenting plans are not directly enforceable like court orders. Courts can, however, look at them later as evidence of what you both considered to be in the children’s best interests.
What if the other parent refuses to attend parenting mediation?
If the other parent will not participate, we can still meet with you in a Mediation Consultation to discuss options and whether a section 60I certificate is appropriate. You can find detailed information about section 60I certificates here.
Can parenting mediation cover schooling, holidays and extra-curricular activities?
Yes. Parenting mediation can cover daily routines, school decisions, holidays, special occasions and how you share costs and responsibilities for activities.
How long does it take to prepare and finalise a parenting plan?
Most parenting plans are drafted during or soon after mediation and finalised within one to two weeks
Do parenting plans have to be approved by a Court?
No. Parenting plans do not need court approval and can be changed whenever both parents agree. If you later want enforceable arrangements, you can ask a lawyer about turning your parenting plan into consent orders.
What if we cannot reach agreement during a parenting mediation?
If you cannot agree on everything, we can still record the areas you do agree on and clearly identify what remains in dispute. In some cases we can issue a section 60I certificate so the Court can decide the unresolved issues.
Is parenting mediation suitable if there has been family violence?
Safety is the first priority. In Mediation Consultations we assess any family violence and risks, and we will not proceed with joint mediation if it is not safe or appropriate.
Can older children have a say in parenting mediation?
Older children’s views can be included through child‑inclusive processes, where a child consultant meets with them and provides feedback for you and the mediator.
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ADDRESS
L9/2 Phillip Law St,
Canberra ACT 2601
PHONE
02 6243 4891 (9am to 5pm) Mon to Friday